Ashanti has opened up about her experience of becoming a mother and how it has transformed her life.
In a recent interview with Entertainment Tonight, the singer shared some intimate details about giving birth to her first child, Kareem Kenkaide Haynes.
She also talked about what it has been like parenting alongside her husband, Nelly.
Ashanti’s Labor Experience
Ashanti described her labor experience as amazing and incredible.
Kareem was born a little earlier than expected on July 18, and she recalled how Nelly had to fly in at the last minute.
Fortunately, he arrived just in time to witness their son’s birth.
She said that having all three of them together in the delivery room and seeing her baby’s face for the first time made her cry.
Ashanti Said ‘… The Three Of Us Together …’
For Ashanti, it was not just a physical experience but also a deeply emotional and spiritual one.
Although she had always dreamed of having children, she never expected to be sharing this moment with Nelly, her former boyfriend.
She shared, “But all of these emotions happening at one time, just knowing that this is your person, this is your purpose, this is what it’s supposed to be – the three of us together – it was such an electrifying feeling.”
For her, the birth of their son strengthened the bond between her, Nelly, and their baby boy.
Ashanti Speaks Out About Motherhood
Ashanti went on to talk about how motherhood has brought significant changes to her life.
During the interview, she admitted that becoming a mom has shifted her priorities in ways she never expected.
She laughed as she said, “It changed me to the extent that I am no longer in charge.”
Ashanti went on to explain that her son definitely dictated everything and was the number one priority over anything else.
This new sense of selflessness is something Ashanti fully embraces, as she is willing to do anything for her son.
Ashanti spoke of the overwhelming love she feels for Kareem.
She said, “It’s this overwhelming feeling of love and admiration and giving.”
The singer added that her little boy had her entire soul.
It’s clear that her focus has completely shifted toward her son, and she’s relishing every moment of it.
Ashanti and Nelly Speak Out About Parenthood
In addition to reflecting on her own experience of motherhood, Ashanti also opened up about parenting alongside Nelly.
Describing their journey together as co-parents, she said it has been really hard to describe in words.
She recalled a touching moment in the hospital when she was struggling to put Kareem to sleep.
She said, “And daddy comes in, and he’s like, ‘Alright, give him to me,’ and I swear he just starts singing, he sits down, and he’s singing and cradling him… and now he’s smiling and quiet.”
Ashanti was deeply moved by how soothing and gentle Nelly was with their son, and the experience brought them even closer as parents.
According to E! News, Nelly also expressed his thoughts on the parenting journey.
He said that having kids is always a blessing, and that seeing how well Ashanti is doing as a mother was awesome.
It seemed clear that the two are working together as a team, with a deep respect for each other’s roles as parents.
Ashanti Offers Advice to New and Expecting Mothers
Ashanti’s journey into motherhood has not only changed her, but it has also given her some valuable insight.
In her interview, she offered advice for new and expecting mothers.
She advised mothers that the best thing to do was to follow their gut instinct.
She added that no matter what obstacles popped up, it was important to keep strong no matter what because children absolutely feel their mother’s energy.
She stressed the importance of creating a safe and secure environment for the baby while also reminding mothers to take care of themselves.
She said, “You have to have space for you as well – don’t get too lost into the world of the baby.”
According to Ashanti, finding balance is key to being the best parent you can be.
Ashanti Speaks Out About Postpartum Journey
Ashanti also shared her feelings about her postpartum journey on Instagram when she announced Kareem’s birth.
She wrote, “Funny how life’s plans aren’t… always on time.”
She had long awaited the day she would become a mother, and though it was a tough journey, she is incredibly proud of her body and everything it has accomplished.
She added that she was so proud of her body for giving her her baby.
In the end, Ashanti’s experience as a new mom has brought her a real sense of fulfillment.
From the labor room to parenting alongside Nelly, she has embraced motherhood with a heart full of love and a deep sense of purpose.
For Ashanti, this new chapter in her life is just beginning, and she is determined to make the most of it.
Is There Trouble In Paradise For Ashanti and Nelly?
However, her words in this interview came out around the time that some other, more shocking news painted a different picture.
And it made it look like the new parents might not be working as a team the way we all thought they were.
A couple of months ago, Nelly caused outrage after news broke of his early morning arrest after an all-nighter in a St. Louis casino.
The main thing that made people angry was the fact that the rapper got into trouble while his wife Ashanti was looking after their baby.
Ashanti’s Cryptic Post After Nelly’s Arrest
But how did the singer herself react to the news?
It was pretty cryptic.
The singer shared a post the very same day that Nelly was arrested which got fans talking.
She was celebrating a special night with her mom, for which she shared a series of pictures on Instagram.
In the caption, she wrote, “Recap Mom’s bday! This was such a special night. Happy Birthday again mom, I love you more than anything.”
The weird thing about the post was that it came several weeks after her mom’s birthday, so fans were curious about the timing.
Was Ashanti trying to create some distance between her family and the news of Nelly’s arrest?
It’s well known that there have been some rumors of tension in the past between Nelly and Ashanti’s mother.
So was the belated birthday post on the same day as Nelly’s arrest a way for Ashanti to pick a side?
Why Was Nelly Arrested?
According to The Shade Room, the rapper was taken into custody just before 5 a.m. on August 7.
He was reportedly charged with possession of illegal substances after being pulled over by police.
He was also alleged to be facing trouble for having no insurance.
In a statement, the police said that they had arrested him for Failure to Appear on an old traffic charge.
Nelly’s Lawyer Speaks Out On Nelly’s Arrest
He has since been released, and a representative for the 49-year-old has made a statement in his defense.
His attorney, Scott Rosenblum, denied the charge against his client.
He said that the rapper had not actually been charged with anything to do with substance possession, but instead for having no proof of insurance.
He added that Nelly had been targeted by “an overzealous, out of line officer.”
Despite his lawyer’s statement, many are still convinced that illegal substances were involved in Nelly‘s recent brush with the law.
The Sun reported that the rapper appeared to be glassy eyed in his police mug shot, during which he was also slightly smiling, suggesting he was in some way intoxicated.
Nelly said in his interview that he thought it was awesome to see how good of a mother Ashanti was.
Whether she truly feels the same way about him, she hasn’t yet shared with us.
